Chronic Illness Lessons

What Having A Chronic Illness Taught Me

Chronic illness comes with a lot of grief. I had the loss of my career, my physical ability, and some relationships. Some people simply disappeared. People I thought I was close to changed and I was left feeling abandoned and lonely. I had to learn to advocate for myself. Even through tears I learned to speak my truth.

The real lesson in all of that is knowing who had my back. Who could see I was suffering when when I was putting on a brave face and pushing through. These people are your tribe. They are are salt of the earth. My circle is smaller but it is mighty and I remember that I am blessed.

I am resilient. I allow myself to feel sad, mad, and angry but I move on. I focus on things I can do and get creative with ways to do the things I once loved. Its just in a new way. I don’t have to please everyone at the expense of my mental and physical health. Those who love me will understand and those who don’t really are not the people I want to have a relationship with. I am worth it. I matter.

Thanks to all who have stood by me. You know who you are. I love you and appreciate you.